About Us
Transforming Challenges Into Growth, Connection, and Leadership
At Chotayah, we work with individuals, couples, families, and organizations facing life’s most complex challenges, whether personal struggles, relationship roadblocks, or high-stakes conflicts.
Our belief is simple: adversity is not the end of the story, but the beginning of transformation.
We offer bespoke therapy, coaching, and mediation services that combine advanced clinical expertise, evidence-based methods, and cultural intelligence.
Each client experience is designed to be unique, confidential, and impactful, whether the goal is healing trauma, strengthening relationships, or building resilience in leadership.
Chotayah: We guide you to the you, waiting to be found
We strive create a unique experience for each of our clients.
We understand that reaching out for support takes courage. That’s why we create an environment of trust, respect, and discretion, where clients feel both safe and empowered.
Our work is collaborative and results-focused, helping you to:
- Resolve deep-rooted conflicts with clarity and confidence.
- Heal trauma and break free from limiting cycles.
- Strengthen communication, intimacy, and trust in relationships.
- Build resilience, self-awareness, and authentic leadership capacity.
At Chotayah, we don’t just offer therapy or coaching, we deliver transformative experiences that foster growth, connection, and long-term impact.
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I guide leaders, couples, and families to heal deeply, live authentically, and thrive under pressure...
Chiddie Anyasodo
Unlock Your Highest Potential: A Trusted Advisor for a High-Stakes World
As a psychotherapist, conflict-resolution specialist, and executive advisor, I am trusted to guide leaders, families, and organizations through their most critical challenges in the world's most high-stakes spaces.
My work is founded on a single principle: the most intractable conflicts, whether in a boardroom, a family enterprise, or a community, are driven by hidden, relational dynamics. Lasting solutions are found not by managing surface-level symptoms, but by diagnosing and healing the root cause.
My mission is simple but profound: to help you turn conflict, trauma, and pressure into opportunities for resilience, connection, and authentic leadership.
My Approach: The Human Systems Engineer
My approach bridges the inner world of human psychology with the outer world of power. My journey began not in a therapy room, but in the high-stakes world of power ( electrical, oil and gas) with global giants like Schlumberger, Baker Hughes, Siemens, Schneider Electric where I spent over a decade.
My engineering background trained me as a 'subsurface detective. My job was to use real-time data to diagnose critical failures in complex, multi-million-dollar systems.
Today, I apply that same diagnostic rigor to the most complex system of all: people.
My method is a unique fusion of three core disciplines:
Clinical Depth: As a Doctoral Researcher in Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy, I work with the deep, often unconscious patterns that drive behavior. I am trained in the most advanced modalities for complex trauma and personality disorders, and I apply this depth to my work in the NHS, Local Authorities and my private practice.
Corporate Acumen: With a decade in international corporate strategy, I understand the language of power, leadership, and high-stakes decision-making. I know the pressures that leaders and organizations face because I have lived in that world.
Cultural Intelligence: My work is grounded in the understanding that culture is the water we swim in. As the creator of the "Five Masquerades", a groundbreaking translation of RLT for an indigenous cultural context, my expertise is in adapting world-class therapeutic models to fit the unique cultural dynamics of an individual, family or organization.
Areas of Expertise
For those who carry immense responsibility, I am the discreet and trusted partner who brings both depth and strategy to their most pressing challenges.
Individual & Couples Psychotherapy: Providing a confidential space to heal trauma, strengthen relationships, and build resilience.
Executive & Leadership Advisory: Guiding CEOs, founders, and executives through high-pressure decisions, burnout, and strategic leadership challenges.
High-Stakes Conflict Resolution: Mediating and resolving intractable disputes in boardrooms, family enterprises, and divided communities.
Trauma-Informed Leadership Programs: Building psychologically safe, resilient, and high-performing teams.
Family & Legacy Consulting: Addressing the deep psychological and relational dynamics behind succession, governance, and the preservation of multi-generational wealth and harmony.
Training & Credentials
Clinical Doctoral Researcher in Psychotherapy, University of Exeter
MSc in Integrative Counselling & PgDip in Complex PTSD, Birmingham Newman University & NCIP
Transference-Focused Psychotherapy & Personality Disorder Training with ISTFP & Professor Otto Kernberg
Mentalisation-Based Treatment (MBT) for Narcissism, Anna Freud Centre
Certified Conflict Mediator (CMC)
Gottman Couples Therapy & Relational Life Therapy (RLT)
Ben Anyasodo
Ben Anyasodo is a multidisciplinary professional, patented scientist, Clinical Hypno-Psychotherapist, and Behavioural Change & Life Coach.
He brings a rare combination of scientific innovation, clinical expertise, and coaching mastery to help individuals and leaders achieve profound, lasting transformation.
Ben doesn’t just ask “why” you behave a certain way. He focuses on the “how” to change those patterns, unlocking new levels of resilience, confidence, and performance.
What Makes Ben Unique
Rapid Transformation: Known by his clients as “The Mind Bender,” Ben is renowned for creating breakthrough mindset shifts in remarkably short periods.
Results-Driven: His approach combines psychology, neuroscience, and hypnotherapy to deliver practical, sustainable change
Trusted by High Performers: Ben has successfully coached executives, entrepreneurs, and coaches to expand their potential and achieve peak performance.
Empowering Approach: He believes everyone has the power to succeed—and his mission is to help you access and harness that inner capacity.
Areas of Expertise
Breaking free from limiting beliefs and negative thought patterns.
Achieving personal and professional goals with clarity and focus.
Enhancing performance, resilience, and mental agility for leaders and high achievers.
Strengthening relationships, overcoming blocks, and building authentic connections
Mission
Ben’s passion is helping people unlock their full potential. Whether in the boardroom, on the stage, or in personal life, his work is dedicated to guiding individuals toward breakthroughs that last.
“When you change the way you think, you change the way you live.”
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