COVENTRY ONLINE · UNITED KINGDOM BY ARRANGEMENT · INTERNATIONALLY
CHOTAYAH
Where the usual approaches have not reached the problem.
And the pattern keeps repeating, this is where the work lives.
A specialist psychotherapy practice for adults, couples and families carrying complex personal, relational, or intergenerational situations that previous treatment, coaching, or self-work has not resolved.
Three arms. One methodology.
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— Who the practice is for
The problems clients actually
bring.
People find their way to Chotayah carrying specific situations that have already been worked on and not yet moved. Not vague dissatisfaction. Named, intractable problems.
I. The pain that will not lift.
Something happened, or something has been happening for years, and the grief, the anger, or the low-level weight of it has not softened with time.
II. The breakup that is still breaking you, eighteen months later.
The marriage ended. The relationship ended. The affair ended. And you are not where you thought you would be by now. Friends have stopped asking. You have stopped asking. The pattern that led you into it is still intact, and you are watching yourself start to make the same move again.
III. The family argument that has now become a decade.
An estrangement. A parent you no longer speak to. A sibling the family has agreed not to talk about. Christmases organised around who is not coming. The argument is old. The cost is current.
IV. The team or partnership that collapsed and took something of yours with it.
A business partner who became a different person. A leadership team you built that fractured. A co-founder relationship that ended in court or in silence. The commercial consequences have been managed. What it did to you has not.
V. The career that has stopped feeling like yours.
Twenty or thirty years of work. Competent, senior, still functioning. And something in you has gone quiet underneath the role, and you do not yet know whether the answer is to leave the work, change the work, or change something inside yourself that the work has been standing in for.
VI. The pattern that keeps repeating in your relationships.
The same kind of partner. The same kind of conflict. The same disappointment arriving two or three years in. You can name the pattern now. You can see it happening. You cannot yet stop it happening.
VII. The child who is not coming home.
Or the child whose life is going somewhere you cannot reach. Or the spouse who is technically still there but has not been present for some time. The relational architecture of your life is quietly falling apart and you have not yet been able to say it out loud.
VI. The body that has started signalling.
Panic that did not used to be there. Sleep that does not come. A compulsion returning. A three-day somatic state after an ordinary family phone call. The body is telling you something the mind has not yet allowed itself to name.
If any of this is why you are here, the practice is built for you.
— HOW THE WORK IS DONE
Depth work, across three arms.
The approach is integrative and grounded in psychoanalytic and psychodynamic thinking, applied across clinical, developmental, and organisational settings. The organising frame is the same. The setting changes.
What that means in practice is that the work is less interested in teaching you strategies for managing the surface, and more interested in understanding what the situation has been doing for you, what it has been protecting, what it has been costing, and what it would take to change.
Three arms of one practice. Psychotherapy for clinical presentations. Behavioural and developmental coaching for goal-oriented change where the client is functioning and wants to move. Consultancy for leadership teams, family enterprises, and organisations where the problem is relational.
Each arm has its own contract, its own ethical frame, and its own fee structure. Clients are routed to the arm that fits the work, not the other way round.
Sessions are fifty minutes. Individual work runs weekly or twice-weekly. Couples work is usually weekly. Therapy is open-ended. You work for as long as it is genuinely useful, not to a predetermined package length.
Two founders.
Complementary expertise.
Chiddie Anyasodo
leads the clinical work.
An integrative psychotherapist working psychoanalytically, a doctoral researcher at the University of Exeter, and, before clinical training, a subsurface engineer across four continents at Schlumberger, Baker Hughes, and Siemens. Advanced training with the Anna Freud Centre, the International Society for Transference-Focused Psychotherapy, and the Relational Life Institute. BACP Registered.
The same subsurface detective methodology she applied to reservoirs is now applied to complex personal and relational systems.
Ben Anyasodo
is a dedicated and versatile hypnopsychotherapist and coach who combines expertise in psychotherapy, hypnotherapy, NLP, and coaching to help clients achieve their personal goals. He leads the Psychological Care, Life Coaching, and Trauma Release Therapy arm of the practice Ben's practice is solution-focused and human-centred, crafting individualised programmes built around each person as a unique human being rather than around the presenting label. Sessions are in-person and online. Evidence-based, compassionate, non-judgemental. A Human-Machine Interaction specialist, behavioural researcher. Ben brings clinical-grade behavioural insight to the coaching work, the organisational consultancy, and the way Chotayah's services are designed around the people who use them.
Clinical work, and applied
clinical thinking.
I. Depth Psychotherapy Practice
For individuals, couples and families.
Depth psychotherapy for individuals, couples, and families navigating complex trauma, personality patterns, relational and intergenerational situations. Led by Chiddie.
II. Coaching Practice
Psychological Care, Life Coaching & Trauma Release Therapy
Hypnotherapy, NLP, counselling, coaching, and psychotherapy for adults carrying anxiety, insomnia, childhood trauma, stress, weight, smoking cessation, phobias, confidence, performance, or transition. Solution-focused and human-centred. Led by Ben Anyasodo.
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III. Organisations
For leadership teams
and family enterprises.
Depth-psychological consultancy, meditation and applied behavioural research for leadership teams, family enterprises, and senior individuals where the problem is relational. Led jointly.
— A PRIVATE CONVERSATION —
If the situation feels intractable.
Whether you are navigating a relational pattern that has resisted other approaches, or a leadership or organisational dynamic that standard interventions have not reached, the practice is open to an initial conversation. No sales process. A frank, private assessment of whether this work is relevant to what you are facing.
Chotayah — "find it" — a specialist psychoanalytic psychotherapy practice with an organisational consultancy arm.
CONTACT
Coventry, United Kingdom
Online / internationally
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